An Interview with Self-Acceptance Advocate Brandee J By Guest Writer Emma Medeiros FabUplus Magazine:…Read More →
Being willing to receive judgments has become the greatest gift of my life. I have spent a lot of time pulling my barriers down and receiving the projections people may have of me. More often than not, a lot of those judgments about me are really judgments those people have of themselves.
Receiving, for me, has been a journey of unplugging from all the triggers that make me want to be right and someone else wrong. I am so much better at not having a point of view about what others think of me. (Most of the time.)
However, just recently I discovered that the person I have been unable to receive judgments from the most was me. I have been judging myself as not doing enough or not beingenough. Whenever that judgment reared its nasty head, I would shut down and try to clear the heaviness in my universe. Clearing all the resistance to working, money, and business. It is so funny because I never thought of that as a judgment. I was treating it as truth and an awareness.
I know the easiest and fastest way to move from judgment into allowance is to not resist and react to anything or align and agree with anything. This morning, I sat with the energy I was creating and I simply said, Well Brenda, that’s an interesting point of view, thinking that you are not doing anything. Immediately my universe lightened up. The heaviness went away and I soon became aware that my desire to play in the sun and indulge in pleasures of the flesh brought forth so much energy and creativity in my universe.
One very powerful truth that I teach people all the time is that Nothing can come into your universe that does not match your judgment. Holding onto the judgment that I was not doing enough created stagnation in my universe. I was unable to even see what my choices were actually creating in my life. All I could see were the places where I was not doing enough. Funny.