Let Go and Just Do It!!
by Johnny Zapp; The Chivalrous Guy
Summertime means different things to different people. It can be the season you love to hate or the one you just love; it is what you make it. Have you ever been on a beach and seen someone clad in an oversized t-shirt because they are too self-conscious to uncover? Have you ever been that someone? Or maybe you’re skittish about going more than ankle deep in the water.
Depending on where you live, going to a nice, warm sunny beach can be a viable option for a little summer fun, so why let body image issues prevent you from partaking? If you’re in a relationship with Mr. or Mrs. Right, I’d bet my last dollar they feel pretty lucky to have a partner as hot as you.
My bride is confident in her looks, but she can be critical of her body at times, keeping her from wearing certain styles because “I’m too fat for that” or “I’m over 30, I can’t wear that.” If a genie popped out of a bottle right now with just one wish for me, I’d give my girl the ability to see herself through my eyes. Confidence and security have to come from within, but it has to have a positive effect on you if the one you love capitalizes on every opportunity to catch a glimpse, steal a kiss or grab your ample booty! Let that positive energy flow over into your activities.
Wear the bikini your man drools over and run out into the ocean like you’re 9 years old! There’s such a youthful exhilaration to “waving your hands in the air like you just don’t care!” What are you worried about, a complete stranger you’ll never see again casting a judgmental look your way? That says more about them than it does about you.